Friday, April 9, 2010

Review and Giveaway: Just Let Me Lie Down by Kristin van Ogtrop CLOSED



I was a full-time working mom for over 8 months before making the decision to stay home, so I've had the unique opportunity of wearing both pairs of shoes. I must say both are equally challenging in their own right. My boss is a good bit shorter these days and highlighters and media plans have been replaced with coloring books and finger paint. In either case, my life as a mom often leaves me feeling utterly exhausted, like a candle burning from both ends. So, when I received the opportunity to review Kristin van Ogtrop's Just Let Me Lie Down: Necessary Terms for the Half-Insane Working Mom, I knew it was something I'd be able to relate to.

As the editor of Real Simple Magazine, Kristin van Ogtrop has an enviable career, dependable husband and three healthy children. You could say she "has it all". Except, like most of us, she is in desperate need of a nap. And is veritably half-insane. We all need some guidance and organization for the chaos of our hectic lives. So, Kristin compiled what she refers to as an "alphabetically arranged dictionary of terms, observations, lists, complaints, questions, musings and the occasional diatribe about the little joys and major nonsense that define life for me, and untold women like me, on a daily basis."

As soon as I saw the hilarious Lego-inspired cover art, I knew I was in for a real treat. And I was right! Kristin's lexicon of domestic and career-oriented nomenclature is written with laser-sharp wit and refreshing candor. Even though I no longer work outside of the home, I found myself nodding right along in agreement, even laughing out loud in parts. Take for instance "accounting error", where you have one more child than you can reasonably handle. Or "benign neglect", in which you let go of your over-attentiveness with your first child in favor of a more negligent nature with subsequent children. One of my personal favorites was "child abuse (harmless)", which is when you're talking to a childless person who is irritating you so you begin to tell stories about your kids to get rid of them. Hilarious! I will have to make a mental note of that for future use.

I could definitely relate to the "boredom fantasy", where you think back longingly on your teenage years, when you were free of responsibility and would give your right arm to be bored again for just one afternoon. I also found the "delusions of SAHM grandeur" - or when a working mom thinks that she can be a talented stay-at-home mom because she has one fine day alone with the kids - quite amusing. I'll admit I was guilty of that myself and now that I am living the SAHM life, I can tell you it's not nearly as glamorous as it appears!

I was relieved that Kristin abstained from the "mommy wars" and was respectful of all moms, regardless of their employment status. Her words definitely made me feel less guilty for my parenting screw-ups and misadventures. The format of the book was very easy to follow and allowed you to skip sections or read out of order. Because each "chapter" consists of just a few pages each, any busy mom can squeeze in some reading during her lunch break - or in my case, naptime.

Bottom line: Just Let Me Lie Down should be a bedside table staple for all moms, working at our out of the home. Just when you feel you've reached your breaking point, just reach for this book and have a good laugh.

BUY IT: You can purchase Just Let Me Lie Down from most major book retailers and online at Amazon.com (ARV $16.49).

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Disclaimer: This review was made possible by the Product Review Place. I received a free copy of this book from Anna at Hachette Book Group to facilitate my candid review. I was not compensated in any other way for this post.

52 comments:

Benita said...

What drives me half insane is being "yessed" and the kids not following through.

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I can't stand when my 3 year old ignores me

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When I come home from work and we live in the country not near stores and my son says I need poster board for a project due tomorrow. He has know for weeks he would need this.

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Joan Elliott said...

Whining drives me insane!!

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Chrissyb said...

Lack of sleep drives me crazy! New mommy here and without sleep I can not function like a normal human!
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susanstewart said...

The kids chosing to dislike each other. Don't they know I had two kids so they'd have someone to play with and leave me alone?
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aledol said...

Not listening to what I said-to much "overtalk"

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Jolee said...

What drives me insane is the moment you enter the bathroom, everyone else needs to come along. Can I just have a MOMENT?!? :-) joleehamlin@comcast.net

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amweeks said...

What drives me half-insane is how my children don't seem to think I ever "do anything" for them! When they're at school, they assume I sit around thinking up ways to make their lives miserable!

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skgaff said...

Probably that my daughter always want to play with the toy(s) that I'm putting away and as soon as I'm not interested in putting that toy away, she's not interested in playing with it anymore.
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Anara said...

the noise - I have a 3 year old who's up between 5:30 & 6 and a 4 year old with Down Syndrome and Autism who does not nap. I don't get quiet until they are both in bed. When I get a chance to go out on my own it's no radio, no phone, just quiet!

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Melissa B. said...

What drives me insane is having to clean up the same mess I just cleaned up the day before.

Charlene said...

When my son forgets to give me letters from school.

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susan1215 said...

Having to remind my daughte every morning to clean her room.

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lilyk said...

kids that don't listen to what you say

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Linda Kish said...

What drives me half insane is that they assume I will take care of things they don't want to do. (They are my adult son and his wife).

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Gianna said...

All the screaming and crying.. there are some days they won't stop no matter what I try.

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